tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1606582308275642584.post24773888776955298..comments2023-10-24T12:45:35.125+01:00Comments on heckety beck: Bless You!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1606582308275642584.post-77753021118013761682012-11-26T14:58:25.805+00:002012-11-26T14:58:25.805+00:00Well, it sounds as if you have found yourself a su...Well, it sounds as if you have found yourself a suitably quirky house to live in, though I'm shocked that there are still houses around with outside loos and kitchens! I hope you can make yourself really snug with winter upon us and that you'll find yourself something with a few more mod cons as time goes by. Keep your chin up, there's always a silver lining around the corner. (That sounds like a very Irish mixed metaphor!)Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00459871513482076398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1606582308275642584.post-90823491289876098742012-11-22T22:54:50.660+00:002012-11-22T22:54:50.660+00:00Well, I hope it's a short term lease. And I h...Well, I hope it's a short term lease. And I hope while you are there you write a children's story about this house and illustrate it. I can see all kinds of characters coming out of that landscape.<br /><br />Now dear, onto your brighter future. Have you heard of Brene Brown? I'm sure you have. But if you haven't, she is a shame researcher. She says this about unwarranted feelings of guilt.<br /><br />“We all have shame. We all have good and bad, dark and light, inside of us. But if we don’t come to terms with our shame, our struggles, we start believing that there’s something wrong with us – that we’re bad, flawed, not good enough – and even worse, we start acting on those beliefs. If we want to be fully engaged, to be connected, we have to be vulnerable. In order to be vulnerable, we need to develop resilience to shame.”<br /><br />You can see her Ted Talk here. <br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psN1DORYYV0<br /><br />Stay strong, Heckety Beck, stay Irish strong. There will be a resolution that will bring you joy. Please tell us what colors you have chosen for this shoe you are living in.Orange Crumpled Napkinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04055834177618192244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1606582308275642584.post-68724145540976763062012-11-22T21:12:59.006+00:002012-11-22T21:12:59.006+00:00I'm so glad you're no longer hiding away. ...I'm so glad you're no longer hiding away. You should be proud and hold your head up high- it takes more courage to leave a situation that isn't working than it does to plod along hoping things might change. Welcome back and good luck in your new home and on your new journey xxx Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01661525718229658789noreply@blogger.com